Monique C. Salmon
MEd, RCC
Registered Clinical Counsellor (#): 1837
Locations: Surrey, Online
Serving: Adults Young Adults Youth 13+ Families Couples Children
I have had the privilege of supporting adolescents and adults through periods of stress, uncertainty, loss, change, and personal growth. I believe counselling is not about fixing what is “wrong” with someone, but about creating a thoughtful, compassionate space where people can better understand themselves, make sense of their experiences, and become curious about patterns that may no longer be serving them. My approach is warm, collaborative, and trauma-informed. I work alongside clients at a pace that feels manageable, drawing on deeper reflective work as well as practical strategies when helpful. I aim to help clients feel more grounded, connected to themselves, and able to move forward in ways that align with their values and the life they want to create.
More about my story
Before entering private practice, I spent many years working as a secondary school counsellor, including several years as a counselling department lead. This work gave me extensive experience supporting adolescents, young adults, parents, educators, and families through a wide range of emotional, relational, academic, and life challenges.
Over time, I became increasingly interested in how past experiences, relationships, nervous-system responses, identity, and deeply held beliefs can shape the way people experience themselves and the world. This led me to pursue further training in trauma-informed, somatic, parts-oriented, narrative, acceptance-based, and emotion-focused approaches.
My transition into private practice has allowed me to continue this work in a setting that offers more time for reflection, deeper exploration, and attention to each client’s individual needs.
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My Professional Background
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Anxiety, worry, and feeling overwhelmed
Depression, low mood, and loss of motivation
Stress, burnout, and emotional exhaustion
Trauma and the lasting effects of difficult experiences
Grief, loss, and complicated life changes
Identity, self-worth, and personal growth
Life transitions, including retirement, career change, and relationship changes
Relationship and family-of-origin concerns
Friendship, belonging, and social disconnection
Adolescence and young-adult transitions
School, university, and workplace pressures
Perfectionism, procrastination, and self-criticism
Chronic pain, injury, and changes in physical functioning
Motor-vehicle accident recovery and driving anxiety
Emotional regulation and nervous-system awareness
Neurodiverse experiences, including ADHD-related challenges
Cultural, gender-identity concerns
*if you want to work with me and don’t see your concern here, mention it on your inquiry form! I’ve worked with many areas and it’s possible I have experience working with yours before, too.
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Person-centred and relational therapy
Trauma-informed counselling
Internal Family Systems-informed parts work
Somatic and nervous-system-informed approaches
Narrative Therapy
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Motivational Interviewing
Emotion-focused approaches
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy-informed strategies
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy-informed strategies
Mindfulness and grounding practices
Psychoeducation
Experiential and expressive approaches
I do not believe that one method fits everyone. Some clients benefit from practical tools and strategies, while others need space to explore patterns, emotions, relationships, or past experiences more deeply. Often, counselling involves a combination of both.
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I hold a Master of Education in Counselling Psychology from the University of British Columbia and am a Registered Clinical Counsellor with the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors.
I previously worked for many years as a school counsellor in the Delta and Langley school districts. My roles included individual counselling, crisis response, risk assessment, family consultation, multidisciplinary collaboration, and leadership as a secondary-school counselling department head.
My experience includes working with adolescents and adults experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, identity concerns, relationship difficulties, chronic stress, academic or workplace pressures, and significant life transitions. I also support individuals recovering from motor-vehicle accidents, injury, chronic pain, and disruptions to their independence, confidence, or sense of identity.
Master of Education in Counselling Psychology — University of British Columbia
Bachelor of Arts in English Studies
Internal Family Systems Trauma Treatment Program — Frank Anderson, MD
Somatic Trauma Therapy Certification Program — Dr. Abi Blakeslee
Narrative Therapy and Community Work, Level 1 — Dulwich Centre
Motivational Interviewing training
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy training
Emotion-Focused Therapy training
Cognitive Behavioural Therapy intensive training
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy for Emotional Dysregulation
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy
Metacognitive Therapy Foundations
Working with Chronic Pain
Cognitive Processing Therapy
Brainspotting training
Trauma-Informed Practice
Anxiety Intervention Strategies
Violent Threat Risk Assessment, Levels 1 and 2
Ongoing professional development in parts work, somatic therapy, grief, trauma, chronic pain, and attachment
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English
Get To Know Me Personally
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My favourite forms of self-care are mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, singing—especially as part of a choir—and staying active outdoors through walking, cycling, hiking, and kayaking. Together, these help me feel grounded, connected, and restored.
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I have always been interested in people’s stories and in what helps someone feel understood, less alone, and more able to move through difficult experiences. As a young educator, I became increasingly drawn to the relational and emotional side of my work. I saw how meaningful it could be when a young person had one steady adult who was willing to listen carefully, remain curious, and look beyond the behaviour or problem presented on the surface.
That interest eventually led me to counselling psychology and to a career that has continued to deepen over many years. I still feel honoured when someone allows me to sit alongside them as they make sense of their life and begin to see themselves with greater compassion and clarity.
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I am proud of having the courage to begin a new professional chapter after a long and meaningful career in the school system. Moving into private practice required me to tolerate uncertainty, continue learning, and trust that the experience I had built over many years could take a new form.
It has reminded me that growth does not stop at a certain age or stage of life. We can continue to change direction, take thoughtful risks, and become more fully ourselves.
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I often imagined becoming someone who cared for and helped others—a nurse, a mother, or a teacher. I also wanted to be a musician and later spent two years studying music at UBC. In the end, both interests remained part of my life through motherhood, music, and a career supporting young people, first as a special educator and later as a counsellor.
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You will often find me spending time with my husband and adult sons, connecting with friends, or enjoying the outdoors through walking, cycling, skiing, hiking, and kayaking. I also enjoy yoga, singing in a choir, reading, writing poetry, and travelling—with a particular love of Italy.
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You do not need to be in crisis or know exactly what you want from counselling before you begin. Sometimes something specific has happened; other times, life simply feels unsettled or familiar patterns keep repeating. Counselling can offer a supportive place to slow down, feel heard, and make sense of what you are experiencing at your own pace.
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Witnessing the moment when someone begins to relate to themselves differently. Sometimes this happens through a major realization, but often it appears in small changes: less self-judgment, greater awareness of what they need, a new boundary, a moment of self-compassion, or the recognition that an old response once made sense.
I value being able to accompany clients through the different seasons of their lives and to see how the work continues to unfold over time.
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Real, warm, and easy to talk to—“like a regular person.” Clients have shared that they appreciate my genuine, down-to-earth manner and my ability to create a space where they can speak openly and feel at ease. They have also valued that I listen closely, notice connections, gently challenge them when helpful, and make room for both seriousness and humour.
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“Sometimes what changes isn’t the struggle itself - it’s the way we come to understand and relate to it”
I value this idea because counselling does not always remove a difficult reality. Sometimes change begins when we gain a new perspective, understand ourselves with greater compassion, and discover more choice in how we respond and move forward.
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